While a Book of Shadows (hereafter noted as "BoS") can contain a plethora for its Keeper, there is one specific section that I believe should be available in (or close by) every BoS, that being a Book of Hours: (specifically, this is the topic of my post, the second of the letter "B" posts for the Pagan Blog Project):
A Book of Hours, whether a section within your BoS or a "stand alone" book, is a treasury of calendars noting Sabbats, moon phase dates and times, day correspondences, as well as other sacred days to you and/or your coven and/or family. It also typically contains a trove of artwork and can include photos of past rites and/or their altars. In addition to these, the following wealth of spiritual offerings are included, of which I offer a compendium within this post:
* litanies
* prayers
* invocations
* mantras
* blessings
* meditations
* petitions made to the Ancient Ones, Goddess, or Gods
* a variety of endings for these.
The distinguished title, "Book of Hours", was given to such books of time and prayers in the medieval times, when such books gradually became readily available to lay people - at first, only to royalty and upper class, but by the end of the 15th century, the books became more readily available to the emerging middle class. These books were often lavishly decorated for those of higher station. Written specific to the individual to whom they were presented, the books were oft personalized as prayers contained the name of those to whom the book belonged. Additionally, they were further personalized in its contents, containing artwork that spoke deeply to its Keeper, as well as other poems and works penned in tribute to the Keeper's Patron and Patroness Deities.
Modern day Books of Hours can be afforded similar luxuries as aforementioned, containing such things as a calendar of the Sabbats, Esbats, as well as prayers specific to the hours of day - morning and evening, as well as those spoken prior to retiring for the day. Prayers for seasons and the turning of the Wheel should also be included. The Book of Hours serves its Creatrix and Keeper (in this case, You) in all times and seasons - hence the name "Book of Hours". Additionally, the rhythm of life is noted through prayers specific to those momentous occasions we honor and celebrate through Rites.
Litanies include such ceremonial forms of prayer that include lists. An example of such would be listing the many and varied attributes of the Goddess, Danu, enumerating her strength and beauty while honoring Her.
Prayers are, of course, a spiritual communion of your heart and mind - most often through words, but also through enactments and deeds. I have discussed Pagan prayer with many people, and have found that there are a number of people who are, through their past experiences with previous religions, a bit jaded toward that particular term. Yet, throughout history, peoples across lands and cultures have reached out to their Goddesses and Gods in prayer. These prayers need not follow any specific format, for they are your heart to your Goddess... Having these prayers noted within your Book of Hours, however, can be a great blessing when in the proverbial "heat of the moment", when words may not come easily.
Invocations are a form of prayer calling upon a certain Deity to aid you, whether as Witness to a Rite you are enacting, for protection, inspiration and so on.
Mantras are a different type of incantation and come in the form of repeated words or short phrases, used in prayer. They often are sung or chanted and can, for some individuals, create an altered state of consciousness.
Blessings, or Sainings, are words which call for favor or a Gift from Goddess, Gods, the Elementals, etc. These are commonly known as, "saying grace", in some circles, and are oft spoken at meal times, at weddings or handfastings, and before going to sleep.
Meditations (or, what my Grandmother called "Ponderables") range from simple ideas upon which one may ruminate to a fully written enactment that is designed to take its hearer on an inner journey and back again.
As for endings to these, there are so many that one can use beyond the simple, yet beautiful, "Blessed Be" or "So mote it Be". Be creative! Remember that you are undertaking the tasks of the day "For the Good of All"... Work from that place, and see how many endings you can create that speak fully of your heart's intention.
There are several Pagan Books of Hours available that I will mention, but do not diminish the strength and beauty to be found in your own words. Remember that a Book of Hours should be personalized. As such, try writing your own thoughts,much as you would prepare your own words for a spell-working or self-ritual. Look to such works as the Carmina Gadelica for inspiration, but adapt the ideas, words, and intention to your own personalized use.
Here are some links to some of my favorite Book of Hours:
Caitlín Matthews is author of the following, which, this blogger unabashedly names as favorites:
Celtic-Devotional-Daily-Prayers-Blessings
Celtic-Spirit-Daily-Meditations
C. Serith penned the following:
A Book of Pagan Prayer
Starhawk, along with several other contributors, have created this beautiful work, especially helpful for those who are called to serve as Death Midwives:
Pagan-Book-Living-Dying-Meditations
Shanddaramon gives us this short, but beautiful, work:
Dewdrops-Moonlight-Book-Pagan-Prayer
While there are an abundance on the market, readily available for purchase, please always remember that those words which come from your heart and mind are, above all, priceless treasures to Goddess, the Gods, the Ancient Ones, the Elementals, and so on. Glean from your own experience with the time in which you are praying. What does the dark of night with the shining stars above feel like to you? What do you see when you look up at Her radiant glory on the night of the full moon? What sounds come to you in the darkest hours of night, when the night seems never-ending? Reach deeply within. The rest will come, giving you a beautiful addition to your Book of Hours. Best of all, it will be just as it need be... for YOU. Personalized, beautiful, perfect. Just as She sees You.
Many blessings,
Rowan
The following is an image from a Book of Hours specific to a calendar cycle. It was a full page miniature denoting the beauty of the month of May. This Book of Hours was from the 16th Century, drawing by Simon Bening.
I offer you the spice of imagination, the flavor of my Spirituality based upon my experiences as a child-become-woman raised by the Wise Women of my family and the many Wise Women I have been blessed by knowing during my 40+ years... It's one part delight in the vivification of mind to two parts mental and verbal coquetry. Do leave a comment... I'm rather fond of piquant exchanges of the heart and mind. I love a great repartee! Many blessings upon your Journey.
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Thursday, February 2, 2012
Friday, January 20, 2012
Bereavement Prayers
Throughout history, and the time before history as we know her, people from cultures across Gaia, walking their various spiritual Paths, have always spoken with Goddess and the Ancient Ones of their respective beliefs. There are times that words "get in the way", if you will... And other times that we just simply don't know what to say. Times of grief and bereavement are two of those most precious and tender times. Perhaps that's what makes it so much more difficult. And yet, we long to find comfort in one another, in our beliefs, in Goddess, in the Ancient Ones.
I am a Death Midwife (more on the meaning of that in a few weeks, when we're upon the letter "D"). As such, I have been privileged to serve others as they are birthed from this mortal plane into the OtherWorldly Beyond. One of the great honors while doing so is to offer up prayers over the one who is Transitioning, to bless them on their Way. In a time when it seems no words are ever the "right ones", be it the death of a beloved animal companion, family member, loved one, or perfect stranger, speaking directly to Goddess and the Ancient Ones somehow always carries us to Her arms of solace and love.
As such, I give you some of the prayers I have offered in times of grief and bereavement. The first several are prayers I offered up during the time of my mother's recent passing. Below those, you will find a prayer I wrote for the death of a beloved animal companion. Naturally, you will want to put your loved one's name within the brackets as shown below. It is my deepest hope that these prayers - even a line or two to offer to someone who is filled with grief - grant you comfort for yourselves and for those with whom you grieve in your hours of need.
Bedside Prayer for One Who is Departing ~ written by Rowan Galahadria MistWalker
The black mantle of She Who Stirs the Cauldron
Is upon my beloved [mother].
The white light of the Shining Ones
Calls to my beloved [mother's] Spirit.
A perfect calm is upon sea and land,
Peace is upon the moor and meadow.
The blessing of the One Who is Three is upon my beloved [mother],
I sain Brighid's cross over her head, her breasts, her belly, her hands and feet.
Day of your ever-lasting peace and reunion with Ancestors gone Before you,
The bright and shining day of your death,
Goddess take you to Her breast and hold you in Her arms.
I pray She bid you welcome to the Realm of the OtherWorld.
Blessed Be, and blessed be what shall come of it. **********************
To "Sain", as in the second stanza, is to "make the sign of". It is a symbol of blessing. Yes, this prayer was choked out through tears! But I meant every word. Sometimes, those who linger are simply waiting for our "blessing" - our "okay" to go ahead and Go. This is never easy... And yet, how can we withhold our blessing upon a dying person's last wish - to be blessed as they Journey? And so it was that I wrote the above prayer with many, many tears and spoke it less than gracefully, though I did so with a heart full of Love and Trust in my mother's timing - in Goddess' timing.
Some may wonder what the last line of this prayer means, beyond the "Blessed Be"... Change is inevitable, and Death is one of the greatest "Bringers of Change". With the parting of our dear one from their mortal body, we begin to learn new lessons - often, whether we want to or not. The line, "and blessed be what shall come of it" asks Goddess to bless our Paths as we learn how to walk in the new reality that lies before us, to accept the lessons with compassion for ourselves and others in the time of adjustment. It reminds us to be gentle with ourselves and those around us who are also grieving.
A Blessing to Carry On ~ by Rowan G. MistWalker
Now shall I bathe my face
In the nine rays of the sun,
As my beloved [mother's] face is bathed
in the luminous light of the OtherWorld.
Now shall I lift my head
To walk the road that rises to meet me
As my beloved [mother's] head is lifted
By our ancestors who have gone before her.
May I find peace
In the arms of Goddess
As [mom] has found peace
In the Great Beyond.
May I find succor and the steadying Presence
of She of 10,000 names
As [mom] has found succor and the blessed Presence
of the Shining Ones in the OtherWorld.
So mote it be. *****************************
A Blessing for the Bereaved ~ by Rowan G. MistWalker
Deep peace of the running wave to you.
Deep peace of the flowing air to you.
Deep peace of the quiet Earth to you.
Deep peace of the shining stars.
Deep peace of the infinite Peace to you.
~ Adapted from ancient Gaelic runes by Rowan Galahadria MistWalker
And another:
A Blessing for those who are Grieving ~ by Rowan Galahadria MistWalker
The Goddess, Brighid, touching the brow and heart
Spake this beannacht (blessing) of healing:
"Deep peace I breathe into you,
O weariness, here,
O ache, here!
"Deep peace, a soft, white dove to you,
Deep peace, a gentle, quiet rain to you,
Deep peace, a tree of great size to you,
Deep peace, a crackling fire in your hearth.
"Peace that is deep, breathe into you,
From a gentle breath of the east to you,
From a warm wind of the south to you,
From a sea breeze of the west to you,
From a cool and soothing mistral of the north to you.
"Peace of silver moon,
Peace of golden sun,
Peace of flocks of stars,
Peace of Earth,
"Deepest peace steadfastly support you as the green of the fields.
Deepest peace fall upon you as the sparkling dew falls,
Deepest peace light your way as the flame of a candle,
Deepest peace of the surety of the dawning of a new day,
"Deep peace draw up around you as My mantle spread,
Deep peace, wrap you in a warm embrace as My twining hair,
Deep peace fill your Being with safety as My long spear,
Peace in heart,
Peace in mind,
Peace in Spirit." Blessed be. ******************************
And, finally, I leave you with this prayer I wrote for the death of a beloved animal companion:
Prayer for the Death of a Beloved Animal Companion (this example for a feline)
~ written by Rowan G. MistWalker
Open the Way, Artemis, for this One to travel.
The Way is open.
Be his/her Guide, even unto the Gates of Bast's Fields,
Which You have traversed in the Before-Time.
May his/her Road be clear, Artemis, for this one to Journey.
The Road is clear.
May the Shining Ones welcome him/her
As They part the Mists to welcome and embrace this Transformed One.
May he/she find our other Beloved Companions who have gone before,
That they may play in the fields of catnip and bask in warmth together.
May he/she flourish greatly in the Land Beyond.
He/She will flourish.
May the emptiness within [kitty's humans] be transformed, Artemis.
The emptiness will be transformed.
Let [kitty's humans] memories become invocations of Joy,
That they may know peace and boundless love again...
They shall know peace and boundless love again.
Blessed Be. ************************
I am a Death Midwife (more on the meaning of that in a few weeks, when we're upon the letter "D"). As such, I have been privileged to serve others as they are birthed from this mortal plane into the OtherWorldly Beyond. One of the great honors while doing so is to offer up prayers over the one who is Transitioning, to bless them on their Way. In a time when it seems no words are ever the "right ones", be it the death of a beloved animal companion, family member, loved one, or perfect stranger, speaking directly to Goddess and the Ancient Ones somehow always carries us to Her arms of solace and love.
As such, I give you some of the prayers I have offered in times of grief and bereavement. The first several are prayers I offered up during the time of my mother's recent passing. Below those, you will find a prayer I wrote for the death of a beloved animal companion. Naturally, you will want to put your loved one's name within the brackets as shown below. It is my deepest hope that these prayers - even a line or two to offer to someone who is filled with grief - grant you comfort for yourselves and for those with whom you grieve in your hours of need.
Bedside Prayer for One Who is Departing ~ written by Rowan Galahadria MistWalker
The black mantle of She Who Stirs the Cauldron
Is upon my beloved [mother].
The white light of the Shining Ones
Calls to my beloved [mother's] Spirit.
A perfect calm is upon sea and land,
Peace is upon the moor and meadow.
The blessing of the One Who is Three is upon my beloved [mother],
I sain Brighid's cross over her head, her breasts, her belly, her hands and feet.
Day of your ever-lasting peace and reunion with Ancestors gone Before you,
The bright and shining day of your death,
Goddess take you to Her breast and hold you in Her arms.
I pray She bid you welcome to the Realm of the OtherWorld.
Blessed Be, and blessed be what shall come of it. **********************
To "Sain", as in the second stanza, is to "make the sign of". It is a symbol of blessing. Yes, this prayer was choked out through tears! But I meant every word. Sometimes, those who linger are simply waiting for our "blessing" - our "okay" to go ahead and Go. This is never easy... And yet, how can we withhold our blessing upon a dying person's last wish - to be blessed as they Journey? And so it was that I wrote the above prayer with many, many tears and spoke it less than gracefully, though I did so with a heart full of Love and Trust in my mother's timing - in Goddess' timing.
Some may wonder what the last line of this prayer means, beyond the "Blessed Be"... Change is inevitable, and Death is one of the greatest "Bringers of Change". With the parting of our dear one from their mortal body, we begin to learn new lessons - often, whether we want to or not. The line, "and blessed be what shall come of it" asks Goddess to bless our Paths as we learn how to walk in the new reality that lies before us, to accept the lessons with compassion for ourselves and others in the time of adjustment. It reminds us to be gentle with ourselves and those around us who are also grieving.
A Blessing to Carry On ~ by Rowan G. MistWalker
Now shall I bathe my face
In the nine rays of the sun,
As my beloved [mother's] face is bathed
in the luminous light of the OtherWorld.
Now shall I lift my head
To walk the road that rises to meet me
As my beloved [mother's] head is lifted
By our ancestors who have gone before her.
May I find peace
In the arms of Goddess
As [mom] has found peace
In the Great Beyond.
May I find succor and the steadying Presence
of She of 10,000 names
As [mom] has found succor and the blessed Presence
of the Shining Ones in the OtherWorld.
So mote it be. *****************************
A Blessing for the Bereaved ~ by Rowan G. MistWalker
Deep peace of the running wave to you.
Deep peace of the flowing air to you.
Deep peace of the quiet Earth to you.
Deep peace of the shining stars.
Deep peace of the infinite Peace to you.
~ Adapted from ancient Gaelic runes by Rowan Galahadria MistWalker
And another:
A Blessing for those who are Grieving ~ by Rowan Galahadria MistWalker
The Goddess, Brighid, touching the brow and heart
Spake this beannacht (blessing) of healing:
"Deep peace I breathe into you,
O weariness, here,
O ache, here!
"Deep peace, a soft, white dove to you,
Deep peace, a gentle, quiet rain to you,
Deep peace, a tree of great size to you,
Deep peace, a crackling fire in your hearth.
"Peace that is deep, breathe into you,
From a gentle breath of the east to you,
From a warm wind of the south to you,
From a sea breeze of the west to you,
From a cool and soothing mistral of the north to you.
"Peace of silver moon,
Peace of golden sun,
Peace of flocks of stars,
Peace of Earth,
"Deepest peace steadfastly support you as the green of the fields.
Deepest peace fall upon you as the sparkling dew falls,
Deepest peace light your way as the flame of a candle,
Deepest peace of the surety of the dawning of a new day,
"Deep peace draw up around you as My mantle spread,
Deep peace, wrap you in a warm embrace as My twining hair,
Deep peace fill your Being with safety as My long spear,
Peace in heart,
Peace in mind,
Peace in Spirit." Blessed be. ******************************
And, finally, I leave you with this prayer I wrote for the death of a beloved animal companion:
Prayer for the Death of a Beloved Animal Companion (this example for a feline)
~ written by Rowan G. MistWalker
Open the Way, Artemis, for this One to travel.
The Way is open.
Be his/her Guide, even unto the Gates of Bast's Fields,
Which You have traversed in the Before-Time.
May his/her Road be clear, Artemis, for this one to Journey.
The Road is clear.
May the Shining Ones welcome him/her
As They part the Mists to welcome and embrace this Transformed One.
May he/she find our other Beloved Companions who have gone before,
That they may play in the fields of catnip and bask in warmth together.
May he/she flourish greatly in the Land Beyond.
He/She will flourish.
May the emptiness within [kitty's humans] be transformed, Artemis.
The emptiness will be transformed.
Let [kitty's humans] memories become invocations of Joy,
That they may know peace and boundless love again...
They shall know peace and boundless love again.
Blessed Be. ************************
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